Details emerge: Lady's Viral Post Advises Men: Marry Virgins or Women with One Body Count

A recent Facebook post by a lady has ignited widespread discussion, as she strongly advised men to seek out virgins or women with a maximum of one previous s*xual partner for marriage. The controversial message was shared on Saturday, October 17, and quickly gained traction across social media.

In her post, the lady presented her argument by asking, “Can I tell you another reason why you MUST marry a VIRGIN?” She then detailed a scenario where women might engage in multiple relationships over several years before deciding to settle down. According to her, “A lady will sleep with 6 different men before praying for a husband. 5 years of partying, 3 years of casual dating and hook-ups. Then at 30, she suddenly becomes serious and wants loyalty, respect and a ring. That is where you enter the chat.”

She further elaborated on the alleged transformation of such women, claiming that by this stage, they would have “gained experience, learned what men want, and understands how to present herself. She becomes prayerful, dresses elegantly, and joins the church. Now she wants you to pay full price, for what 6 others got for free.”

The post went on to warn men about the potential challenges of marrying a woman with a higher 'body count'. The lady asserted that upon marriage, a man might “get home and discover that she is emotionally unavailable, struggles to bond with you, is not submissive, and does not respect you because, in her eyes, you cannot satisfy her the way her exes did. Si unaona uko na kibarua?”

Concluding her advice, she cautioned against judging women solely by their outward appearance. She urged men not to “TRUST a woman because she looks innocent, speaks softly, dresses modestly, or presents herself as the perfect partner,” emphasizing that “Appearances can be deceiving.” Instead, she advised focusing on core characteristics: “Pay attention to her character, her values, her honesty, and her consistency.” The post culminated with a direct instruction for men to “Above all, VERIFY and proofread that she is either a VIRGIN or doesn't have a body count of more than ONE.”